(30-second read) After working on this project all summer and fall, I’m delighted to share that our courses, workshops, and trainings are now approved by the New York State Education Department (NYSED) for CTLE continuing education credits. Additionally, we’re also approved as an Authorized Continuing Education Provider (ACE) by the Behavior Analyst Certification Board. Coming Soon! We are […]
(1-minute read) One of my students is a super bright young man who has come a REALLY long way! When I did my first visit to his home a couple years ago, he was an 8-year-old tantrumming on the floor underneath a table while pulling down the tablecloth with all the dinner plates, soup bowls,
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(30-second read) Question:What’s a green thought for a kid who has a Cognitive Distortion and thinks everything needs to be fair?Thanks so much,Life is Unfair Answer: Dear Life is Unfair, In Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), we teach children and teens (and their parents) about Cognitive Distortions or Unhelpful Thinking Styles. For kids, I explain it
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(1-minute read) Question: Do you have any ideas or suggestions for a child who is obsessive? For example, she says, “I need to check the doors 10x or else I won’t fall asleep.” She’s also overly anxious. She doesn’t feel like a real person, so I told her to look in the mirror and she
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(1-minute read) Emotion Webs I’d like to go back to offering regular, common strategies that not only help us at a time of war but at any time our children have strong emotions. Since I wish to practice what I preach, namely, going back to routines and structure, here goes… (By the way, it’s not
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(3-minute read) We have all been affected, either directly or indirectly, by the news of the atrocities in Israel. I thought it would never happen to me, but my youngest son is in the IDF reserves and was drafted on Yomtov along with his entire unit. If we tried to shelter our children from the
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(1-minute read) One of my new high school students told me this week that she’s traveling with several of her high school cousins during the upcoming Chol Hamoed Holiday for an extended trip. In the past, she noticed that her cousins disregarded her and even mistreated her. Understandably, she was worried it would happen again.
(1-minute read) Age does matter when it comes to whining and tantrums. Here are two strategies for very young children. Solutions #3 and #4: For children under the age of 4, it is ok to use “substitution” and “distraction.” Substitution means that if the child is whining about a candy, you can offer a different
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(2-minute read) Last week, I posted two questions about children who whine, nag, and tantrum. To recap, the first strategy was to praise at the rate of ‘six sugars to one vinegar’ whenever the child was doing the opposite of the reds of whining, nagging, and tantrums. In other words, when the child was doing
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Question #1: Dear Devora, What would you do if a 4-year old child constantly whines and tantrums? The parent I work with always talks her daughter through it in an attempt to calm her down. But perhaps this is reinforcing the behavior and making it happen even more often! Should I even teach the mom
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